Are you spending Valentine’s Day alone and don’t want to wallow in self-pity with a bottle of wine, chocolates, and a rewatch of Bridget Jones’s Diary? We get it — we don’t want that either! Here’s a complete guide to spending the perfect Valentine’s Day with yourself.
Forget the leftovers — treat yourself!
Got leftover spaghetti sauce and half a box of macaroni? Skip it! Treat yourself to a great meal. Screw the expenses, as they say! When was the last time you had a one-on-one dinner with yourself? It’s time to focus on YOU and give yourself a luxurious evening with no other excuse than being the most important person in your life.
Chocolates will be on sale on February 15th. But tonight? Go for that decadent pastry, ice cream, or dessert that makes your mouth water.
Do something you enjoy.
Treat yourself to a wellness session: take a long bath or shower, indulge in full-body care, do your hair, beard, nails, moisturize your body, put on your coziest pajamas, and enjoy your time pampering yourself.
Give yourself the best solo pleasure ever.
You’ve heard it all before: “10 ways to please him,” “5 easy steps to make your partner climax,” “the best ideas to spice up your love life.” But what about YOU? When was the last time you focused on your own pleasure? The wait is over — it’s time to go all-in on maximizing your own orgasms.
Treat yourself to a new toy that will blow your mind. Don’t go for a cheap gadget just to save a few bucks — invest in a quality product that you’ll love and keep for a long time.
Get comfortable and prepare for your solo session. Bring your favorite lubricant, tissues, and anything else you may need within reach.
If you need visual stimulation, don’t hold back! Grab a book, a comic, a video, or a movie. You’re in charge, and you have every right to indulge your desires.
Take your time. You don’t have to stop after one orgasm or even after the first climax. Tease yourself, pause, and restart as much as you want (as long as it feels good). You can even start — or finish — in the bath or shower, move to the couch, and end in bed. Again, it’s all up to you.
Changing positions can also provide new sensations. While solo play often follows a standard routine, we know that sexual positions during partnered sex vary greatly to stimulate different areas. So why not let your instincts guide you during solo time?
In Conclusion...
Don’t let a date dictate your mood for an entire evening. Choose to celebrate your relationship with yourself, and treat yourself the way you deserve!