So, you’ve finally decided to dive into the world of power play and try handcuffs for the first time! This mysterious universe that has fascinated you now intrigues you even more, and you feel like a kid in a candy store, ready to try everything! Where should you head next?
Quick Glossary:
B – Bondage (restraint and servitude)
D – Discipline and dominance
S – Submission and sadism
M – Masochism
Kinky: describes a sexuality that is out of the ordinary.
Scene, session: terms used to describe a fetish, kinky, or BDSM activity. It highlights that it’s first and foremost a game.
Knowing Your Own Limits
Perhaps you felt ecstatic or even liberated the first time you indulged in your BDSM desires—this is totally normal! Your next challenge is identifying your limits. These limits are not set in stone and will likely evolve over time. The key is to take a moment to reflect on what drives your desire. It might seem daunting or unfamiliar at first, but it’s important to know that many BDSM practices carry unique risks. It’s better to know what you’re getting into!
There’s nothing wrong with exploring new things at your own pace. It’s a bit like trying a new dish for the first time!
The Key: Communication!
The success of a session (or scene) begins with clear communication with your partner. This communication should be fluid, transparent, and honest from all parties involved. It includes sharing fantasies, but also discussing each person’s limits and agreeing on safewords. This step is known as negotiation. Kinky people are often praised for their openness in discussing desires and, most importantly, consent.
For some, it might be difficult to talk openly about desires due to embarrassment. Writing them down—whether in texts or handwritten letters for a romantic touch—can be an excellent way to communicate your fantasies while also igniting excitement!
Choosing the Right Equipment
After identifying your limits and discussing them with your partner, it will be easier to choose new items to enhance your experience!
- The Miss Morgane Sweet Submission Kit is perfect for exploring discipline and protocols, thanks to its posture collar.*
*A posture collar is designed to keep the wearer’s head held high and straight.
- Looking for more intense sensations? The 22.5” Black Leather Crop from Miss Morgane is just what you need.
- Your partner always manages to escape from beginner handcuffs? Trust us—they won’t escape from these buckle leather cuffs.
Now you’re ready to dive a little deeper into your desires! There’s absolutely nothing wrong with your BDSM activity as long as it is safe, sane, and consensual.